Aaaaaaaw!

I have been so inspired by a piece I read this morning that I would like to share it with you.  The piece is about being true to yourself and that it is probably the biggest gift you can give yourself.

Why do we want to be like other people? What is cool? What is not?

I have fell into that trap many times - trying to be like someone else, following a certain style, talking like someone else, etc.  As you get older and hopefully a bit wiser you actually get really comfortable in your own skin.  My point is to stick to what makes you happy because I would much rather be your friend if you are you and not some secondhand version of someone else.

If someone judges you, it is probably because they aren't happy themselves.  Ignore them and move on - like my husband said, if you feel sad every single time something bad that happens to you, you will feel sad most of the time. 

I have also learnt that you are going to lose some friends along the way BUT then again you will gain some new great ones in the future.  Better ones!

Society is an absolute bitch.  She decides what is cool and what not.  I have decided along time ago that I do not like that woman - not at all!

This is a very valuable lesson to me since I will be bringing a child into this world - I will raise her to be true to herself.  I refuse to push her to do what she doesn't want to(except for veggies) and I will encourage her to be honest with herself.

Be your own unique self.

Here is some Dr Suess inspiration for you!

Zzzz....

Daniel and I(and the whole family) went to the doctor on Monday to find out whether Baba Barnard is a boy or a girl and just like I predicted it was a girl! It makes such a difference when you know the sex of the baby, it gives this little thing in your stomach a personality. I am really starting to love it now maybe because in your second trimester you start feeling like a normal human being again?

Last night we went to see The Great Gatsby movie. It was really beautiful - the costumes, the set, the actors, everything! And I really love the modern twist on the movie, I am not a Jay Z fan whatsoever but his music really suited the whole theme. If you watch it you will know what I mean. It was a bit long but I only say that because I struggle to keep my eyes open after 7 at night.

When I was about 10 years old my mom, dad, brother and me went to see the movie, Phenomenon. It was in Pretoria and it was a late show - I think the 10 o'clock show. When I woke up the whole cinema was empty, the movie finished and my family was fast asleep. True story!

I have been a very bad blogger. Very bad.

I really have been such a lazy ass the last few months. Just with blogging and washing though. The thing is, I actually love blogging but since my very surprising pregnancy I have been in this twilight zone until I met up with two travel bloggers the other day who inspired me to put those thoughts onto paper again.

The thing is to just do it if you are stuck in a rut. Just do it! Get of your bum and start by just doing one little thing at a time and before you know it you are back in the game again!

Pregnancy has really made me think long and hard thoughts, it is such a crazy fantastic emotional roller coaster ride that you go through. I am scared, nervous but extremely excited.

Here is a glimpse of my life the last few weeks.

Baba Barnard

I know I haven't posted anything in a while and I can actually give you a few reasons for my bad behaviour.
1.  I don't know. 2. I had writers/a creative block 3. I had an operation 4.  I found out that Baba Barnard is on its way! Ha!

Anywoo, Daniel and I went for our 2nd check-up yesterday.  It is literally the weirdest thing seeing a little baby in your stomach.  Hearing the heart beat is also another wow-moment and knowing that you are responsible for this life is the biggest wake-up call of your life.

At the beginning I was quite shocked and not excited as I was suppose to be.  Not that I didn't want the baby but I had no idea how to handle all my emotions.  You think you have your life in order and then BAM! something changes it.  Yesterday, after seeing a little body literally jumping up and down(everytime I laughed Baba Barnard jumped up and down) and seeing the excitement on Daniel's face everything changed.  I am finally very excited.  Screw you fatique, screw you nausea, screw you weird appetite!

baba barnard

the size of baba barnard